Wednesday, August 29, 2012

Short Stories 8: Englishman in New York

Once upon a time, a local recording artist named Davey Langit released a series of acoustic instrumentals online under the banner "Guitar Talk Sessions." I reached out to him upon hearing his version of one of my favorite songs by Sting, Englishman in New York. That has led to this unplugged jazz rendition of that song, thanks to the magic of social networking. 


I am also so excited by the news that STING will be coming to MANILA on his "Back To Bass" tour, I finally get to watch the legend LIVE at the SM Arena on December 9, 2012!! I've already bought my tickets, SO EXCITED. Get yours now!

The Truth About Youth in 2012

Sometimes we just can't help but be annoyed by certain "behavioral trends." If you know me, you know I rarely ever complain. That's why I'm thankful there are people out there in cyberspace who create the perfect memes that say it for you... hahahaha














Ah yes, the Duck Face. Ugh.






**Disclaimer: None of these statements were meant to offend anyone but were expressed for comedic purposes only.

Travel Tidbits 6: Railay Beach - Krabi, Thailand

THAILAND - Krabi Province has some of the most breathtaking beaches and rock-formations I have ever seen.

Can you see tiny, tiny me?

Oh so happy, so free!
Me, swimming with the fish in the sea - where I feel most at peace.
With Andrea and Macy on the boat that took us island hopping.
Pretty cool ambiance for some beach soccer!
Breakfast by the water everyday Mmmm

Chicken-shaped island
**All photos (taken by and) are the sole property of my travel companion Macy Yapkianwee.


Tuesday, August 28, 2012

The Skin You Live In


There is no end-all-be-all all-in-one antidote/regimen to perfect, glowing, skin. That, my dear friends, is the truth.

While I have no qualms with accepting compensation for endorsing a product, there is definitely something more satisfying about telling a friend, “Hey, I've tried this, and it really works! I’m sharing these trade secrets with you because you’re my friend and I love you.”

So here I am sharing my skin care routine with you, my friends, as an honest initiative for those who have over the years asked me how I take care of myself. I used to have really, really horrid acne all across my forehead when I was younger. But with careful attention to lifestyle choices, I've been able to smoothen out my face, and without a lot of makeup (as in these photos). The thing is, everyone’s skin is different, but there are some simple rules that everyone can abide by. If you're interested to learn the routine I live by, do read on. :)

First, there are the general wellness habits that you’ve heard over and over for a reason – because they are true.


1.     Drinking plenty of water everyday keeps your skin hydrated from within.
2.     Cutting down drastically on cigarettes and alcohol will make a huge difference in how quickly you age, as these habits form ugly, lasting lines on your face and leave you with dry, dull-looking skin.
3.     Exercising regularly gives you a natural, healthy glow; even a quick and fun 15-minute cardio session will increase blood circulation throughout the body, including your face.
4.     Sleep also plays a huge role in keeping your skin looking younger for longer, as you may know from personal experience (i.e. eyebags and dark circles).

Now for the all-inclusive tip that most people fail to realize is so important in keeping your face clear: SANITATION.

1.     Sanitizing your mobile phone – Have you given any thought to the surfaces your phone touches when it’s not in your hands? Imagine putting your face directly on those surfaces and letting your face sit there for an hour. Like, in your bag next to your wallet, or on a table where the dirty bottom of your bag was probably sitting a minute ago. Imagine that bag on the floor of your car. Now imagine your face on that floor. Yup.

2.     Sanitizing your keyboard – Think of how many times you’ve shared a pen with someone, not knowing where that pen has been or where those hands have been, then gone to work on your laptop, while sweeping away a stray hair from your face with your fingertips. Think about that time you ordered some food, reached into your wallet to pay for your food, then went back to your online research or whatever it is you were doing at that coffeeshop, then taking a break from the research to reapply your lipbalm with your finger, the same finger that held money from some stranger’s hands. Think about every time you’ve lent your laptop to a sibling in need, not knowing if he/she’d just come from using the restroom. Now scratch the tip of your nose, wipe the sweat off your brow, or sweep that stray hair away from your face again. Yes, that’s right.

[In my own everyday barely-there makeup, no foundation.]
3.     Separating your makeup brushes – If you carry a little beauty kit with you wherever you go, it’s wise to keep your brushes in a plastic Ziplock bag, to keep them from collecting dust and dirt from the outer surfaces of your makeup containers and compacts. Those compacts touch the same surfaces as your mobile phone. Also, washing your brushes regularly with baby shampoo is a good way to prevent the buildup of bacteria.

4.     Cleaning your aircon/electric fan regularly – These machines are great for two things; one, for regulating the temperature of your room, and two, for blowing dust particles at your face.

5.     Washing your hands (and face) after playing with your dog/cat – Your little loved ones are out doing what they love to do all day, that is to roll around in the grass or lay on the floor. They don’t bathe everyday like we do. When you let your puppy give you a nice little smack on your cheek, did you think about the neighbor’s dog’s butt he/she was probably sniffing earlier today? Or worse, what comes out of that butt as part of the natural digestive cycle, he likes to sniff that too, doesn’t he? Washing your hands after touching money is equally important. Actually, just sanitizing your hands as often as possible is key.

While it’s easy to protect yourself from the buildup pimple-causing bacteria, there is one thing you can’t really fight, and that’s hormones, especially when that special time of the month rolls around for us ladies. Even I don’t have clear skill all year round because Mother Nature tries to keep my vanity in check 12 times a year. But that is also the most number of times a year I’ll fall hostage to the occasional zit. That’s just once a month, the kind that lasts just 30 hours at most, and doesn’t necessarily appear every month.

I try to keep this as under-control as possible by sticking to a religious cleansing routine and never going to bed without having washed and moisturized my face.

1.     If you went to sleep with a clean face, all you need in the morning is a light facial foam to dissolve the natural film of oil on your skin that you wakeup with. I use a homemade aloe-vera-based cleanser. Make sure to use light strokes to keep from pulling your skin too harshly, the effects of which you will see as you age and your skin begins to lose its youthful elasticity. Scrubbing hard can irritate your skin and promote wrinkles, rubbing over acne can leave scars. Remember that you don’t need a lot of product or a rough hand to get a thorough clean.

2.     Don’t just dramatically splash water on your face like you see in the commercials. Rinse more than you think you need to. Some products and soaps leave a thin film of residue than can actually clog your pores. Splashing your face with cold water at the end of your wash gives your skin a rejuvenated glow as well.

3.     Gently pat your face dry with a face towel, and by “face towel” I mean a towel only used for your face. Remember to change this towel regularly. Please, please don’t use your bath towel or hand towel. Remember the conversation we had earlier about touching surfaces? Do you want to rub the dead skin from your butt and underarms on your face after you’d just cleaned it? I didn’t think so.

4.     Moisturize, moisturize, moisturize. Never ever put makeup on without gently spreading moisturizer all over your face and neck beforehand. Don’t squirt a big glob of lotion on the palm of your hand and rub it up and down on your face. You’re wasting product which is now being absorbed more by your hand than by your face, and you’re again increasing the formation of lines and wrinkles. Use your fingertips to apply the product in small, circular motions. Not only will you save your face this way, you’ll save on having to buy more product so often.

5.     After you’ve moisturized, you can go ahead and apply your makeup following your own routine. 

6.     At the end of the day, use a good makeup remover to wipe off all the product on your face before giving it a wash. By “good” I mean a formula that really picks up the makeup pigments, your cleansers need help getting rid of deep-seeded dirt.

7.     You can let your face get some steam in the shower to open up the pores before using a facial scrub for your evening wash. Proceed with gentle, circular motions, concentrating on the areas you get the most oily (usually T-zone and around the nose). Rinse thoroughly with warm water. Don't forget to use your face towel!

8.     Again, moisturize, moisturize, moisturize. Feel free to apply a more liberal amount on your face at night and just let the product seep into your skin as you sleep.

I’m a simple girl. I don’t wear tons of makeup everyday, but I do put on some mascara and at least a little concealer and lipstain even when I run errands because I like to leave the house looking neat and sweet, the object being to greet the outside world as a clean and polished young woman. 

The truth is that people treat you better when you look put-together, and it's not necessarily a matter of discrimination but a subconscious natural reaction to pleasant appearances. I mean, do you ever pick the ugly cupcake out of the dozen? Someone once told me that being well-kempt is a sign of respect both for yourself and for the people you meet, and I definitely agree with that. I, too, occasionally watch the video-blogs on how to apply the perfect “no-makeup makeup,” but the honest to goodness answer for healthy, glowing skin is dedication to caring for it. :)



** To find out what my favorite skincare or makeup products are, Tweet me @CaraManglapus!
** Photos by Alejandro Rivera.

How Will I Know?

I stopped following GLEE a long time ago, but this clean a cappella tribute to the late, great Whitney Houston rings so honest and true... it is beautiful. 

Wednesday, August 22, 2012

TOMS Good Folk Fest

Would love for y'all to join us at the TOMS Good Folk Fest this Friday at Mercato Centrale BGC, great music lineup and live art! Plus, good food and good company. Have a good time for a great cause, see you there!



Tuesday, August 21, 2012

Glam Barbie


A good photographer friend (and fellow musician), Alejandro Rivera, needed Barbie-themed portraits and asked if I would sit infront of the camera for this project. I reluctantly obliged, knowing Ale would always be there for me if I needed his help. 

I must admit that I'm still very awkward at "posing" (haha), but here are some fun ones from the shoot. 

The goal was to look alive but still made of plastic... glam Barbie! 

(Make-up by Acie Fores Romero-Salas theglowgirl.net)


You can check out more of Alejandro Rivera's photography at: http://www.aleriveraphotography.com/



   

Monday, August 20, 2012

Original Demo: Gone

*listen with earphones or good speakers to hear the bass line*
*no pitch-correction, autotune, or added reverb*

Words & vocal arrangement: Cara Manglapus
Music: Justin de Guzman

GONE

I would love for you to love me
Make me feel like I’m the only thing that matters to you
Tell me that I’m irreplaceable
Tell me that I am yours and yours alone

I would love for you to love me
Just pretend that we are the only two in the room 

Take my hand, baby
Tell me you can’t stand to live without me
'Cause I would love for you to hold me like you’d die without my kiss
But maybe you just don’t see how much of me you’d be miss
-ing if I’m gone

I would love for you to love me
See I’d to anything to make you want me too
‘Cause I would love to let you love me if you only wanted to,
Constant, unconditional, that’s all I’d ask of you

I would love for you to believe me
When I tell you that all really I want is you

Take my hand, baby
Tell me you can’t stand to live without me
I would love for you to hold me like you’d die without my kiss
But maybe you just don’t see how much of me you’d be miss
-ing if I’m gone

Influence & Inspiration 10: Advice from Stephen Covey

**As seen on Stephen Covey's Facebook page. Stephen Covey, author of 7 Habits Of Highly Effective People.**

Sunday, August 12, 2012

Fashion Fights The Flood - ZALORA PH Fundraiser

In light of the recent calamities and natural disasters that our great nation faces, Zalora PH will be hosting a fundraising event called FASHION FIGHTS THE FLOOD on Wednesday, August 15, at SKYE Lounge.

With musical performances by:


Support a great cause! See you all there!


Original Demo: Body Language

(photo by Alejandro Rivera)



A little personal take on "jazz hiphop"
** Quality comes out best with earphones; original lyrics and vocal arrangement, with many thanks to Justin De Guzman @DeeperManila for creating the beat.

BODY LANGUAGE

What more can you say, that I can’t hear, in your eyes,
When your words push me away, it’s that fear that I despise.

Your ears digest the sorrow in the sentences I sew,
As your lips punch out the painful words that you have “got to go.”

Your feet, they take you places, but they also stop to think,
If your lungs could hold the aftermath, my heart would cease to blink,

So you so spin in my direction, hold me closely with your stare,
Let your hands do all the talking while my head comes up for air.

Your fingers taste the saltiness that trickles down my spine
As I’m towed by a familiar pull, the scent that you’re still mine.

Mmmm still mine
Mmmm still mine

We could dance in this dilemma, throw all caution to the wind,
Let human nature take its course and tell the father we have sinned,

But you, of us, the wiser, know from ready we are far,
And you couldn’t bear the thought of leaving my heart with a scar;

So our bodies mirror images of ghostly lullabies,
As we sift through all our memories in search of compromise.

As I inhale all the worry that is drawn across your face,
You say perfect is a far-off dream, a dream you wish to chase.

(break)

Baby, I don’t need no perfection
I just need to see you smile,
We can sit here, sober,
knowing things are okay
Okay for a while.

The mind’s unrest, unrest, uneasy
having not heard that you care,
Though your body language says it,
what’s the point of this affair?

If you never drop that armor, say those words and say them pure,
Then we’ll find ourselves right back here again and never know for sure.

When your candor breaks the silence in a whisper so divine,
Then I’m pulled by that familiar tow,
the scent that you are mine.